Very proud and excited to announce that our article, “Hautism,” has been published in PATH International’s Strides! magazine.
A couple of editorial corrections … Wilderwood is located in Peralta, New Mexico (not “Peralita”) and even though our preference is to refer to autistic people (not people with autism), the editorial house-style of the magazine was used instead.
We are very fortunate here at Wilderwood as we bring along Vivaldi and Desperado (Viv and Des) to be receiving assistance from instructor James Riedeman, one of only a handful of licensed instructors in the USA in the principles of the Ecole de Légèreté (trans. the “School of Lightness”).
Here is a video that features our instructor James (among others) participating in the Teachers’ Course for Ecole de Légèreté last fall in California. We are so lucky to have this opportunity to work with James and learn this beautiful way of developing a gentle, light, and lovely partnership with our horses.
We have just finished an amazing Pilot program with wonderful participants! Lots of useful and practical input and the incredibly valuable opportunity to “test run” many of the curriculum’s activities by and for the people who will be completing the program.
For three hours each week over six weeks, our participants attended every session and gave the curriculum a rigorous going-through with enthusiasm, grace, and commitment.
The horses also enjoyed meeting their new friends!
We are now starting the task of textbook and program revisions based on this input and then moving into the next exciting stage: recruiting participants and volunteers for 2021 and starting the program!
Watch this space! — and a HUGE thank you to our Piloteers 2020. We love you all and are very thankful to you!
Wilderwood’s Pilot program opened on June 20. We are so appreciative of the participants who are piloting the curriculum and providing incredibly valuable insight to strengthen it with their contributions and ideas.
We were also honored to have visitors to Wilderwood on our opening Pilot day as well: Congresswoman Xochitl Torres Small and Board Member Linda Stover came by to discuss our innovative program and view Wilderwood. The horses were on their best behavior and it was a beautiful New Mexico summer day.
The core of Wilderwood is its equine-assisted curriculum to work therapeutically with autistic teens and adults. By therapeutically, we mean in its original sense of the word: to heal, to restore health — whole body health encompassing elements of the physical, psychological, sociological, philosophical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual — from Greek therapeutikos, which in turn is from therapeuein, meaning “to attend” or “to treat.”
And, our horses are integral to all the therapeutic and rescue work we do at Wilderwood.
That brings us to the “rescue” component of our work. We consider this word in more ways than one. Whether it’s “rescue” for an autistic person relating to restoring or improving his or her sense of dignity, self-worth, and esteem, or it’s “rescue” for a horse to come to Wilderwood and assist us in the delivery of our program, the goal is the same: To provide a place of peace and healing; of discovering (or re-discovering) a sense of joy and happiness in living.
Part of our mission involves education through our curriculum for and to autistic teens and adults — as well as educating non-autistic people about our perspective on and about autism itself. It also involves educating people about horses and how incredible these animals are, including the innate connection or parallels between horses and autistic people, for which we have coined a term: Hautism.
Tragically, many autistic adults who are part of the “Lost Generation” feel a sense of abandonment and unwantedness, much of which is attributable to no diagnosis (or late diagnosis) and having experienced years of rejection, not fitting in, and being mislabeled and misunderstood. We find a kinship in horses who have also been set aside, unwanted, and abandoned.
Unlike many other horse rescues, any horse who is “rescued” to come and live with us at Wilderwood will not be trained for rehoming or selling. Due to our size limitations, we can only feasibly care for five horses at a time. When one passes on, we will likely replace that horse with one more.
When that time comes to add another horse to Wilderwood’s stable, in keeping with our mission we often look for those horses who are unwanted, rejected, and need the love and stability of a place of peace and healing. This is the component of our “rescue” for horses. One at a time, when we are able — and on the absolute condition that such a rescue horse will live out his or her days, however long or short that may be, here with us: loved, wanted, cared for, cherished, usefully contributing, and being an integral part of all we do.
The word “rescue,” to us, evokes the concept of keeping from being lost or abandoned, and is imbued with love, care, compassion, healing, spirit, and joy.
One at a time, whether human or horse, and in our own small ways in this enormous world and universe, we strive to make a difference and believe that this is something of which every one of us is capable, should we choose to do so.
Tragically, at 2:12 p.m. on May 22, 2020 our darling boy Saeed left us. He fought heroically for five days. His indomitable spirit did not let him down, nor did the overwhelming love that we have for this horse let him down, nor the veterinary care he received and the numerous outcalls and treatments and medications and IV fluids.
What failed Saeed in the end was his age and his kidneys.
Even to the end this horse strived to show us how much he loved us and loved being here as part of our lives. With his blood pressure falling, kidneys failing, having lost at least 100 pounds, not having eaten for five days and barely drinking water, in his last few moments with us he playfully picked up a stick and looked back at us as if to say “I love you.”
Even the specter of dying could not crush this beautiful soul.
Saeed, your spirit is here with us. We hear you in the wind through the cottonwoods; we feel you in the warmth of the breeze and the sunshine; we know you will be there in the cool calm of the mornings and the copper gold fire of the sunsets that shine brilliantly bright like the amazing gold hue of your coat. You are with us when the wind chimes blow, you are with us when we rattle the chicken scratch container, or lift the lid of the treat bin.
You are running in the back lands with your herd and we hear you, we feel you.
Wilderwood and our lives will not be the same without you, and yet you will be here with us in our hearts — always. Thank you for the blessing of your magnificent life and the difference you brought to the many lives that you touched … especially ours.
Desmond, at age 4, has now graduated. He is considered what is colloquially known as being “green broke”; that is, he is ready to start the next phase of his schooling — now under saddle. He chose some unique, Desmond-like ways to celebrate!
Excited to announce that Joy has arrived and is available! All proceeds from this memoir will be donated to Wilderwood Equine Therapy to help develop and deliver its programs for — and with — autistic adults.
Like everyone, we are doing our best to keep the joy at Wilderwood during the corona quarantine and stay-at-home time. We are working hard, continuing to prepare and ready Wilderwood for our Pilot participants (June) and first participant intake (later this year). The arena letters arrived this week! — and we were pretty impressed that they spelled “Becca” right out of the box.